Tag: Divorce Planning

Clearing the Mental Clutter During Big Life Changes (Ep. 98)

Clearing the Mental Clutter During Big Life Changes (Ep. 98)

When life feels noisy, the real issue is not always a lack of time; it is often a lack of clarity.

The biggest decisions in life rarely get solved by doing more. They get solved by cutting through the clutter, focusing on what matters most, and taking one small step at a time.

In this episode, I talk with Jill Beck, founder of Go Long, about why so many women stay stuck during major life transitions and how accountability, clarity, and small actions can help them move forward. Jill shares her own path out of high-pressure corporate life, why women often put themselves last, and how her text-based coaching helps make hard changes feel more manageable.

Key takeaways:

  • How Jill’s health journey and corporate experience led her to help women through major transitions
  • Why fear, perfection, and helping others can keep women from facing the changes they need to make
  • How text-based accountability can make hard decisions feel more manageable
  • The value of narrowing your focus, understanding your why, and being willing to get uncomfortable
  • Why breaking a big task into smaller steps can reduce overwhelm and create momentum
  • And more!

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About our Guest: 

Jill Beck worked at one of the top investment banks, traveled extensively, and built what many would describe as a dream career.

Behind the scenes, she was exhausted, overwhelmed, and neglecting her own well-being. She was working 90+ hour weeks, skipping meals, relying heavily on Diet Coke, and getting very little sleep.

Even after being diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, she continued pushing forward. She told herself she would focus on her health when things slowed down, but that moment never came.

It was not until she reached a breaking point that she realized something had to change. She began making small, intentional adjustments, focusing on what she could do instead of trying to meet every expectation at once.

Today, at 53, she is in the best shape of her life. She takes active vacations with her husband, hikes regularly, and wakes up feeling energized about her day.

What made the difference was not a complete overhaul overnight. It came from simplifying, focusing, and creating space for herself without guilt.

Now, she helps others take a similar approach through practical, personalized steps that align with their life, goals, and priorities.

Social Security Planning After Divorce: Crucial Rules and Mistakes to Avoid (Ep. 63)

Social Security Planning After Divorce: Crucial Rules and Mistakes to Avoid (Ep. 63)

Divorce is difficult enough without letting confusion over Social Security take a toll on your future income.

In this episode, I explain the essential Social Security strategies every divorced woman should know, from the ten-year rule to remarriage traps. I highlight true stories of women who faced preventable financial setbacks and how proper planning could have saved them thousands. 

This episode discusses:

  • The importance of understanding the 10-year marriage rule for eligibility on an ex-spouse’s Social Security record
  • How the timing of claiming benefits, including the impact of claiming early, can affect your lifetime income
  • The effects of remarriage, before and after age 60, on eligibility for both spousal and survivor benefits
  • The distinction between ex-spousal and survivor benefits, including how and when you can switch between them
  • Why consulting a financial advisor or certified divorce financial analyst can help you avoid costly mistakes and make the most of your options

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Gray Divorce and Retirement: How Collaborative Divorce May Protect Your Financial Future with Jill Lowe (Ep. 62)

Gray Divorce and Retirement: How Collaborative Divorce May Protect Your Financial Future with Jill Lowe (Ep. 62)

Gray divorce can significantly impact your retirement plans and emotional well-being.

How do you protect your financial future when love fades later in life? What pitfalls should you avoid to stay financially sound?

In this episode, I sit down with Jill Lowe, Collaborative Divorce Attorney at J Lowe Law, LLC, to discuss the financial and emotional layers of gray divorce. Together, we explore why more women are choosing divorce later in life and how preparation and informed decisions can lead to financial confidence.

Jill discusses:

  • How education becomes a crucial tool for women considering or going through divorce
  • The growing trend of gray divorce and why more women are initiating the split
  • The danger of letting emotions drive decisions around keeping the marital home
  • How collaborative divorce offers a less combative, more goal-focused approach
  • The essential role financial planners play in mapping out a stable future post-divorce
  • And more!

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About our Guest:

Jill Lowe is a Collaborative Divorce Attorney and founder of J Lowe Law, LLC. With over 20 years of legal experience—18 of those focused exclusively on family law—Jill brings a unique combination of legal expertise and personal insight to her work.

She is licensed to practice law in both Texas and Florida and has been representing clients in collaborative divorces for more than 15 years. She’s also a trained collaborative professional in both states and has spent the past three years speaking publicly on the collaborative process.

Jill’s commitment to peaceful resolution stems from her own experience as a child of divorced parents and her decision—after facing serious health challenges—to step away from litigation in favor of helping families resolve conflict with compassion. She believes divorce doesn’t have to be a battle, and her work focuses on healing and collaboration instead of confrontation.