Tag: Retirement Income

Should You Stay in Your Home in Retirement? What Women Need to Consider (Ep. 110)

Should You Stay in Your Home in Retirement? What Women Need to Consider (Ep. 110)

Retirement brings freedom and flexibility, but it also raises important questions about how and where you want to live as life changes over time.

What happens if your current home no longer fits your needs? How do you balance emotional attachment, financial realities, and practical lifestyle decisions while planning for the future?

In this episode, I discuss how choosing where to live in retirement should be viewed as an ongoing process rather than a one-time decision. I share real conversations from our retirement planning practice about downsizing, staying in the family home, healthcare access, mobility concerns, and the emotional side of relocating later in life. 

We also explain why planning ahead can help retirees maintain independence and avoid difficult decisions during stressful moments.

Key takeaways:

  • Looking beyond downsizing and focusing on how daily life may change throughout retirement
  • Preparing a current home for aging needs before mobility or health concerns become urgent
  • Weighing emotional attachment against financial and practical retirement decisions
  • Considering proximity to family, healthcare, and community support when relocating
  • Understanding how housing costs affect retirement income and long-term flexibility
  • And more!

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Social Security Rules That No Longer Apply (Ep. 109)

Social Security Rules That No Longer Apply (Ep. 109)

Outdated Social Security advice can create costly mistakes, especially when rules have changed, but old strategies are still being shared today.

Have you ever heard someone say, “I was told I could do this with Social Security”? What if that advice no longer applies and could affect your retirement income for years to come?

In this episode, I explain several Social Security filing strategies that used to work but no longer apply for many women today. I walk through common misunderstandings around ex-spousal benefits, deemed filing rules, restricted applications, and survivor benefits. I also clarify the important differences between rules for married spouses and divorced spouses, along with how filing early can reduce benefits. 

Key takeaways:

  • Why outdated Social Security strategies can create costly retirement income mistakes today
  • How the deemed filing rules changed spousal and ex-spousal benefit claiming options
  • The difference between survivor benefits and spousal benefits after divorce or widowhood
  • Why filing before full retirement age can permanently reduce monthly benefits
  • How working before full retirement age may temporarily reduce Social Security income
  • And more!

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Understanding Your Social Security Statement and What It Really Means (Ep. 106)

Understanding Your Social Security Statement and What It Really Means (Ep. 106)

Your Social Security statement might look simple, but the details behind it can shape your entire retirement plan.

Are you only looking at the benefit numbers, or are you missing the bigger picture that could impact your future income?

In this episode, I walk through how to properly read your Social Security statement and what it is really telling you beyond just your projected benefits. I explain how eligibility works, what assumptions are built into the estimates, and why your earnings history matters more than most people realize.

We also cover how missing income years can affect your benefit, how to correct errors, and how continued work can change your outcome.

Key takeaways:

  • Why your Social Security statement shows more than just benefit estimates and what those details mean
  • How eligibility for retirement, disability, survivor benefits, and Medicare is determined
  • The impact of missing or incorrect earnings history and how it can reduce your future income
  • Why estimates assume continued earnings and how changes in work affect projections
  • How working longer can increase benefits by replacing lower-income years in your record
  • And more!

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How to Turn Your Tax Return into a Planning Tool (Ep. 103)

How to Turn Your Tax Return into a Planning Tool (Ep. 103)

Most people think tax season ends when the return is filed, but that may be where the real opportunity begins.

What if your tax return could guide smarter financial decisions instead of sitting untouched for a year?

In this episode, I explain how your tax return can become a valuable planning tool instead of something you file away. I walk through how to review your return for accuracy, compare it year to year, and identify missed items that could impact your taxes. 

We also share how understanding key numbers like income and tax rates can shape better decisions, and how building a “base case” early in the year helps you plan ahead and avoid last-minute tax surprises.

Key takeaways:

  • Why reviewing your tax return after filing can uncover missed details and potential savings opportunities
  • How comparing year-to-year returns helps identify changes, errors, or missing income and deductions
  • What key numbers like taxable income and tax brackets reveal about future planning decisions
  • How small reporting mistakes like Roth conversions or QCDs can lead to unnecessary taxes
  • Why using your return early in the year creates a base case for proactive tax planning 
  • And more!

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Should You Keep the House After Divorce? A Smarter Way to Decide (Ep. 99)

Should You Keep the House After Divorce? A Smarter Way to Decide (Ep. 99)

When divorce puts the future of your home into question, the biggest risk is making decisions before you fully understand your options.

In this episode, I sit down with Stacey Ellison, Certified Divorce Lending Professional and Divorce Mortgage Planner at Divorce Mortgage Solutions, to walk through how mortgage planning, settlement language, and income rules can shape what is actually possible when it comes to keeping a home. 

We talk through how assets, support payments, and loan strategies factor into qualification, especially for women navigating this transition later in life. We also address the emotional pull of the family home and how to balance that with long-term financial stability. 

Key takeaways:

  • Why divorce mortgage planning should happen before the settlement agreement is finalized
  • How settlement language can affect whether support, assets, or other funds count as qualifying income
  • What options may be available when someone wants to keep the house, including loan assumptions, FHA, and asset depletion strategies
  • Why emotions around the marital home can lead to costly decisions if long-term affordability is not considered
  • How women going through gray divorce can use retirement income, Social Security, and other assets to qualify more effectively
  • And more!

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About our Guest: 

Stacey Ellison, CDLP®, is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional and Divorce Mortgage Planner with a deep understanding of the financial complexities that arise during and after divorce. With over 30 years of experience in the mortgage industry, Stacey brings a unique blend of technical knowledge and compassionate guidance to individuals navigating one of life’s most challenging transitions. 

Since earning her CDLP® designation in 2020, Stacey has worked closely with family law attorneys, mediators, financial planners, and other divorce professionals to provide strategic mortgage guidance tailored to each client’s needs. Her role is to ensure that both parties in a divorce understand their options when it comes to home equity, mortgage qualification, and long-term housing goals. Whether helping a client determine if they can keep the marital home, qualify for a new mortgage, or explore equitable buyout solutions, Stacey provides clarity, structure, and confidence in the decision-making process. Her goal is to help divorcing homeowners make sound financial choices that support both their immediate needs and long-term stability.

What Is the Future of Social Security? (Ep. 97)

What Is the Future of Social Security? (Ep. 97)

Many women approaching retirement worry that Social Security may not be there when they need it most. That uncertainty can make retirement planning feel overwhelming.

But what do the numbers actually say?

In this episode, I break down the real projections behind Social Security and what they mean for women approaching retirement. I explain why benefits are not expected to disappear, how potential reductions could work, and how to plan conservatively without making decisions based on fear. Most importantly, I walk through how Social Security fits into the broader retirement income puzzle.

Key Points:

  • Why Social Security is projected to continue paying benefits even if the trust fund faces depletion
  • What the projected 81% funding level actually means for future benefits
  • Why Social Security remains a foundational piece of retirement income for many women
  • How to stress test your retirement plan with a possible 20% benefit reduction
  • How Social Security should fit into your broader retirement income strategy
  • And more!

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Preparation or Timing: What Really Determines a Successful Retirement (Ep. 96)

Preparation or Timing: What Really Determines a Successful Retirement (Ep. 96)

Many people ask whether retiring early will help them live longer. The real conversation is much bigger than that.

Statistics and social media posts often push simple conclusions, but retirement decisions are rarely simple. Health, caregiving responsibilities, longevity, and financial readiness all play a role.

In this episode, I explore a study about retirement timing and longevity and explain why statistics alone should never guide your retirement decisions. I walk through how planning, financial preparedness, and understanding what you are retiring to matter far more than the age you stop working. The conversation also highlights why women in particular must plan for longer retirements and how reducing financial stress can influence both physical and emotional well-being.

Key Points:

  • Why statistics about retirement and longevity can be misleading
  • The difference between retiring early and being prepared for retirement
  • How health and caregiving responsibilities influence retirement timing
  • Why women must plan for longer retirements and financial longevity
  • The importance of knowing what you are retiring to, not just when you retire
  • And more!

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Investing in Retirement – Part 4: Putting the Pieces Together for a Successful Retirement (Ep. 83)

Investing in Retirement – Part 4: Putting the Pieces Together for a Successful Retirement (Ep. 83)

Retirement planning doesn’t end once you stop working; it evolves. 

In this episode, I wrap up my seven essential strategies for successful investing in retirement, focusing on two of the most pivotal: managing your tax burden and deciding whether to work with an advisor. 

I share how to plan ahead for taxes, the importance of timing withdrawals, and why every woman deserves a seat at the financial table.

Key Takeaways:

  • Why emotional decisions during market downturns often lead to poor outcomes
  • How to manage your lifetime tax liability, not just your yearly one
  • Why your retirement income plan should start 2–5 years before retiring
  • The key questions to ask before hiring a financial advisor
  • The importance of involving both spouses, especially women, in financial conversations
  • And more!

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Social Security Planning After Divorce: Crucial Rules and Mistakes to Avoid (Ep. 63)

Social Security Planning After Divorce: Crucial Rules and Mistakes to Avoid (Ep. 63)

Divorce is difficult enough without letting confusion over Social Security take a toll on your future income.

In this episode, I explain the essential Social Security strategies every divorced woman should know, from the ten-year rule to remarriage traps. I highlight true stories of women who faced preventable financial setbacks and how proper planning could have saved them thousands. 

This episode discusses:

  • The importance of understanding the 10-year marriage rule for eligibility on an ex-spouse’s Social Security record
  • How the timing of claiming benefits, including the impact of claiming early, can affect your lifetime income
  • The effects of remarriage, before and after age 60, on eligibility for both spousal and survivor benefits
  • The distinction between ex-spousal and survivor benefits, including how and when you can switch between them
  • Why consulting a financial advisor or certified divorce financial analyst can help you avoid costly mistakes and make the most of your options

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Q&A: Living Trusts, Social Security, and Protecting Your Retirement (Ep. 53)

Q&A: Living Trusts, Social Security, and Protecting Your Retirement (Ep. 53)

Retirement planning can feel overwhelming, especially when faced with difficult questions about protecting your assets,  Social Security benefits, and market uncertainties. 

In this episode, I answer listener questions about whether to choose a living trust or a will, explain how Social Security benefits work for widows and divorced women, and discuss how to prepare your retirement income for market ups and downs. I also share practical tips on building a financial safety net and touch on the importance of tax planning through retirement stages.

Key points:

  • The considerations involved in deciding between a will and a living trust, emphasizing the importance of privacy
  • How divorce can affect Social Security benefits, and whether it’s possible to receive higher benefits based on a former spouse’s record
  • The Social Security Fairness Act and how it impacts individuals, specifically teachers, receiving both a pension and Social Security
  • Strategies to preserve your retirement income
  • The conditions under which children can receive Social Security retirement benefits, a topic that is not frequently discussed
  • And more!

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